Every day, we have customers who visiting the store to buy sex toys for someone else. It really happens all the time. It actually can be a little frustrating for me as the salesperson to give my best advice, whenever the buyer may not be prepared. So this article is directed to the buyers of sex toy gifts.
Every day, we have customers who visiting the store to buy sex toys for someone else. It really happens all the time. It actually can be a little frustrating for me as the salesperson to give my best advice, whenever the buyer may not be prepared. So this article is directed to the buyers of sex toy gifts. Those customers looking for gifts that give back; who eagerly want to spice things up, or are looking for a new sexual adventure.
A conversation must be had prior to visiting the store, to find out as much as you can about the sex toy gifts your partner is looking for. I do not know them. I have no idea what their preferences are and that makes it difficult to buy sex toys for someone else.
When you buy sex toys from LoveWorks, I want you and your partner to be happy with whatever gift you leave our store with, just as much as you do. I especially want your partner to be happy, if I am helping you make your decision. I have pride!!
As we say, we sell gifts that give back – and we want to make the sex toy gift you buy gives back to you in new and exciting ways.
If your partner absolutely will not come into the store with you, for whatever reason, please have a conversation with them, and ask a few questions before you arrive.
It is not unusual for one partner to come along to buy sex toys for the other partner who is too embarrassed to visit our store. Talk to us and let us help you buy sex toys that are the right ones!
Questions I will ask are as followed, and make great questions you should ask ask prior to your visit:
How do you plan to
use the toys?
In water, in the
movie theater, on your partner only.
Strapped on, held in your hands.
When you say toy,
what comes to mind?
Are we talking about
a toy for a man? Or a women? Are we
talking about a toy that penetrates or is used outside of the body? Do you imagine the batteries in the toy, or
attached with a cord?
How much experience
has your partner had with toys?
Have you and your
partner had many toys before, or is this new?
Are we talking beginner toys or the Great American Challenge? Does your partner dislike certain colors –
like pink?
Is there a preference
for vibration or not?
Believe it or not,
this makes a big different when buying sex toys as gifts
How do you envision
using the toys?
This is our second
way of asking whether you plan to use the toy for penetration or external
stimulation.
The questions really do help guide me to make a better suggestion. Sometimes people just don’t know, or they may be uncomfortable answering those questions to a stranger. That is ok too. Looking around the store will usually find something that sticks out, and catches your attention.
The purchase of sex toy gifts is a personal one – but there are thousands of toys, and we are trying to make sure you and your partner are happy, and purchase the gift that give back and make you the champion sex toy buyer!
That being said, there is a ton to look at in our stores. Sometimes someone will come in with a particular item in mind, and see something they find to be more exciting. Don’t do that! Make a mental note about the other sex toy gifts that you liked. But, when you decide to buy sex toys, get the item closest to what you and your partner have discussed.
Sex toy gifts that surprise may not be the best idea. For example: imagine you and your partner agreed on a simple bullet style clitoral stimulator. Once you come into the store, you get excited by the idea of an anal probe. You think to yourself, “surely my partner is totally ok with that, I like the idea”.
An anal toy is going to be a gift that gives back in whole different way than a bullet!
They may be, but they may not be. It is always best to stick to the game plan, and continue to grow from there. You don’t need to go from one extreme to the next. Set a pace and go at that pace.
It is ok if you do not know exactly what to get. My go to suggestion for a vibrator is the Sensuelle Bentlii. I actually like to recommend it for first time toy buyers too.
The Sensuelle Bentlii is appealing to the eye and sleek, so it isn’t as intimidating as some other vibrators.
It is packaged nicely and makes a nice sex toy gift, and is a really great vibrator. The Sensuelle Bentlii is available in pink and purple.
It is what I like to call a standard vibrator, but you sort of have options still. You can use it just on the clitoris as an external clitoral stimulator; or it can be used for penetration. That way you decide what you like between penetration or clit stimulation by choosing a toy that can be used in both ways.
It is a flexi-toy, so it has some give to it, and isn’t a “hard as a rock” toy. Made out of silicone, so there is a little “give” to it.
1 yr warranty through the manufacturer – Sensuelle. Everyone loves getting a warranty on the toys they buy! We love Sensuelle toys because they are well-built and customers love them. Here are some of our other Sensuelle reviews — Point, Femme, and G-Spot.
Made with 15 different functions, so you explore your preference there. Why does anyone need 15 functions? You can’t understand until you have felt the way the vibration occurs, stops, starts, speeds up and back down – and have discovered which of these functions you or your partner prefer.
Rechargeable. No more going to the dollar store for batteries at 8:30 at night!
Completely submersible in water. So exploring in a private pool or bathtub is an option.
Two motors for optimum power. Sensuelle sex toys are known to be among the most powerful sex toys you can buy.
The Sensuelle Bentlii is just what always comes to mind first when someone wants to buy sex toys for someone else. I always assume vibration, and it is a safe recommendation without offending anyone. Like I mention above, communication is most important thing to have – when buying a sex toy for someone else.
There are many other categories and types of items to enhance pleasure. Browse the online store, and feel free to come in with any other questions.
All of our in-store team members are trained to explain the different types of products we sell, and are able to tell you which products vibrate the most, or go in water, and are our best sellers. That is a fact that makes LoveWorks Stores different.
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