The gifts that give back
Every day, we have customers who visiting the
store to buy sex toys for someone else.
It really happens all the time. It actually can be a little frustrating
for me as the salesperson to give my best advice, whenever the buyer may not be
prepared. So this article is directed to the buyers of sex toy gifts. Those customers looking for gifts that give
back; who eagerly want to spice things up, or are looking for a new sexual
adventure.
A conversation must be had prior to visiting the
store, to find out as much as you can about the sex toy gifts your partner is
looking for. I do not know them. I have no idea what their preferences are and
that makes it difficult to buy sex toys for someone else.
I want you and your partner to be happy
When you buy sex toys from LoveWorks, I want you
and your partner to be happy with whatever gift you leave our store with, just
as much as you do. I especially want your
partner to be happy, if I am helping you make your decision. I have pride!!
As we say, we sell gifts that give back – and we
want to make the sex toy gift you buy gives back to you in new and exciting
ways.
If your partner absolutely will not come into the
store with you, for whatever reason, please have a conversation with them, and ask
a few questions before you arrive.
It is not unusual for one partner to come along
to buy sex toys for the other partner who is too embarrassed to visit our
store. Talk to us and let us help you buy
sex toys that are the right ones!
I ask questions!
Questions I will ask are as followed, and make great
questions you should ask ask prior to your visit:
How do you plan to
use the toys?
In water, in the
movie theater, on your partner only.
Strapped on, held in your hands.
When you say toy,
what comes to mind?
Are we talking about
a toy for a man? Or a women? Are we
talking about a toy that penetrates or is used outside of the body? Do you imagine the batteries in the toy, or
attached with a cord?
How much experience
has your partner had with toys?
Have you and your
partner had many toys before, or is this new?
Are we talking beginner toys or the Great American Challenge? Does your partner dislike certain colors –
like pink?
Is there a preference
for vibration or not?
Believe it or not,
this makes a big different when buying sex toys as gifts
How do you envision
using the toys?
This is our second
way of asking whether you plan to use the toy for penetration or external
stimulation.
I need information to help you make an informed
decision
The questions really do help guide me to make a
better suggestion. Sometimes people just don’t know, or they may be
uncomfortable answering those questions to a stranger. That is ok too. Looking
around the store will usually find something that sticks out, and catches your
attention.
The purchase of sex toy gifts is a personal one –
but there are thousands of toys, and we are trying to make sure you and your
partner are happy, and purchase the gift that give back and make you the
champion sex toy buyer!
We have a lot to look at in-store and on-line
That being said, there is a ton to look at in our
stores. Sometimes someone will come in with a particular item in mind, and see
something they find to be more exciting. Don’t do that! Make a mental note
about the other sex toy gifts that you liked.
But, when you decide to buy sex toys, get the item closest to what you
and your partner have discussed.
Sex toy gifts that surprise may not be the best
idea. For example: imagine you and your partner agreed on a simple bullet style
clitoral stimulator. Once you come into the store, you get excited by the idea
of an anal probe. You think to yourself,
“surely my partner is totally ok with that, I like the idea”.
An anal toy is going to be a gift that gives back in whole different way than a bullet!
They may be, but they may not be. It is always
best to stick to the game plan, and continue to grow from there. You don’t need
to go from one extreme to the next. Set a pace and go at that pace.
My favorite first
sex toy
It is ok if you do not know exactly what to get.
My go to suggestion for a vibrator is the Sensuelle Bentlii. I actually like to
recommend it for first time toy buyers too.
The Sensuelle Bentlii is appealing to the eye and sleek, so it isn’t as intimidating as some other vibrators.
It is packaged nicely and makes a nice sex toy gift, and is a really great vibrator. The Sensuelle Bentlii is available in pink and purple.
It is what I like to call a standard vibrator,
but you sort of have options still. You can use it just on the clitoris as an
external clitoral stimulator; or it can be used for penetration. That way you
decide what you like between penetration or clit stimulation by choosing a toy
that can be used in both ways.
It is a flexi-toy, so it has some give to it, and
isn’t a “hard as a rock” toy. Made out of silicone, so there is a little “give”
to it.
A toy with a one year warranty
1 yr warranty through the manufacturer – Sensuelle. Everyone loves getting a warranty on the toys they buy! We love Sensuelle toys because they are well-built and customers love them. Here are some of our other Sensuelle reviews — Point, Femme, and G-Spot.
Made with 15 different functions, so you explore
your preference there. Why does anyone need 15 functions? You can’t understand until you have felt the
way the vibration occurs, stops, starts, speeds up and back down – and have
discovered which of these functions you or your partner prefer.
Rechargeable. No more going to the dollar store for batteries at 8:30 at night!
Completely submersible in water. So exploring in a private pool or bathtub is an option.
Two motors for optimum power. Sensuelle sex toys are known to be among the most powerful sex toys you can buy.
Bentlii by Sensuelle – a great gift
The Sensuelle Bentlii is just what always comes to mind first when someone wants to buy sex toys for someone else. I always assume vibration, and it is a safe recommendation without offending anyone. Like I mention above, communication is most important thing to have – when buying a sex toy for someone else.
There are many other categories and types of
items to enhance pleasure. Browse the online store, and feel free to come in
with any other questions.
All of our in-store team members are trained to explain the different types of products we sell, and are able to tell you which products vibrate the most, or go in water, and are our best sellers. That is a fact that makes LoveWorks Stores different.
When will you be coming to visit us?