Kanye West and Amber Rose on Who Likes Anal Play

Kanye West and Amber Rose Disagree on Who Likes Anal Play

Let’s be honest, we all have that one not-so-acceptable thing the does it for us in bed. Rumor has (or had) it that for Kanye West, it’s pegging. This is basically when a woman performs anal intercourse on her partner. It may not be full out sex — probably with a finger playing around to stimulate the prostrate or it might be total penetration with a sex toy.

Kanye West’s ex, Amber Rose, decided to make it known on twitter that he likes to have a finger up there once in a while. She revealed this after he indirectly insulted her while arguing with her child’s father, Wiz Khalifa. Amber posted on twitter, “Are u mad I’m not around to play in ur asshole anymore? #FingersInTheBootyAssBitch”.

Now, we understand that it can be embarrassing to have someone talk about your sex life in public, but Kanye West came out really defensive to say that he has never been involved in any sexual act that involved his anal region. Kanye’s reply was, “Exes can be mad but just so you know I never let them play with my ass. I don’t do that… I stay away from that area all together”. Reminds me of Shaggy, “Say it wasn’t you”.

Now Kanye, what so wrong about some anal stimulation? Even your buds do a little anal play from time to time.

For people who are open minded sexually, it is confusing to see what is so scandalous about a man exploring other sides of his sexual needs. Sadly, a lot of men still view this as embarrassing. One reason is that they are too afraid of the homophobia that will come with talking about it with their bros (even for straight bros).  

I mean you guys talk about everything else right? It’s normal for a guy to be explicit when talking about his sex life with his friends; most times, he wants to impress them. Most men who enjoy pegging will not admit this to anyone – and hope their ex won’t either. But I guess the thought of macho man Kanye West admitting to be the anal play receiver was a little too much.

Another reason is the thought of losing ‘control’ especially when your partner is someone who is going to be in your life for a long time. The thought of being the receptive partner to anything might discourage them. This means that a lot of men go through their lives with hidden sex fantasies that they never get to play out, even though their partner would have been willing.

Thankfully, the world is becoming more open minded and people are learning to embrace sexual fetishes, especially if you have a few of your own.

If you’ve been thinking about asking your partner to peg you, here are a few tips to make it mind blowing for you:

• Share your needs with your partner, no round table discussion needed; make it dirty talk- compelling dirty talk.
  
• Make sure you have enough lube at hand, you need everything to be as smooth and painless as possible.
  
• Clean yourself out as much as you can (not many people like a hidden surprise). If you want to make sure you are totally clean, you can give yourself an enema. Use plain or mildly warm water and remember to give your body an hour to recover before sexy time.
  
• You and your partner should go sex toy shopping together. You may think a finger is enough, and then discover half way through sex that you want something more, and there’s nothing to give you. Also, shopping for a sex toy or pegging strap ons would give her more insight on what you like.  Bananas are not a good idea. 
  
• Up to now, nothing described here is pegging – it is only “finger or toy in the ass”.  True pegging involves your partner donning a strap-on penis that will be used to penetrate your ass the same way you penetrate your partner.  But don’t worry, there are many sizes available, and this is one instance where smaller might be better!

Note: if you are a newbie at anal play, try taking it slow in the beginning. Give yourself enough time to relax and try avoiding getting tense easily. Tell your partner what you want (especially if they are new to it too), this way they don’t have to fumble around, with your guidance they can give you amazing orgasms.

Paul Z is a guest writer who enjoys writing about the embarrassing situations that celebrities find themselves in.