Q&A – Is it wrong for me to enjoy casual sex? I’m female.

Q&A – Is it wrong for me to enjoy casual sex?  I’m female. 

Casual sex? Not bad

…But you must take precaution

Yes, women are interested in casual sex as much as men. Shocker? Not really. But you must take certain precautions and remember a few things before you decide to make-out with a total stranger.

The trend today is all about making out, having sex, flirting with no form of commitment in mind. We all want to hook-up. Nobody cares about growing a relationship. A serious relationship? Let’s just have sex.

For some hook-up means something less than intercourse, like flirting which eventually leads to kissing and anything but actual intercourse. But generally, hook-up means having casual sex or sexual encounter with someone (mostly a stranger) with no form of future commitments in mind. It a widely accepted myth that men are more interested in casual sex experience.

Women are modest when it comes to having a sexual experience with a total stranger. If a study from Johannes Gutenberg-Universität Mainz in Germany is anything to go by, then, women equally interested in hook-ups as men. Sixty (60) heterosexual men and women were studied in a laboratory by researchers. The research was disguised as a survey for a dating site online.

The researchers discovered that women were as interested in casual sex as men if certain factors are put in mind. The women unlike the men have safety concerns, they want to be sure they won’t face any form of danger and won’t be up for unnecessary social stigma hence, the reason they appear modest. They discovered that women were okay with having sexual experience with strangers (they think are attractive) if all these factors are met.

Women: It is ok to pursue casual sex. Study shows …

So, as a woman who is sexually active and liberated, you should go ahead with your casual fantasies knowing you are not all by yourself. Act on your hook-up fantasies with no form of guilt. Enjoy it. But first, you need to follow these steps below to help you stay safe & sexy, healthy & free.

Before you engage in one-night stands, you need to take the following precaution:

You need to stay healthy by eating healthy and nutritious food that can boost your sexual stamina and avoid foods that have substances that are likely to pose a threat to your health. Participating in regular exercises also go a long way to keep us fit and strong.

Avoid potential partners who try to use their body or sexual appetites to woo you.

You must be careful when using your phones. In this age of acceleration and connectivity like never before, you must be careful on what you share on social media. This will save you lots of trouble especially from slut-shame. You do not want any part it.

If you are passing through a dry spell with no attractive partner in view, you need to take charge. Instead of hooking up with fewer ideal mates, with no form of guilt and shame acquire intimate sex toys. They are safe and they save you loads of potential bullshit. Besides, they are fun!

So long as you are happy and healthy, you need to be comfortable in your skin and appreciate your body no matter how old you are.

It has been proven that women crave sex more as they age, so don’t fight the idea or be ashamed of hooking up with younger men who can satisfy your new-found energy.